How Adventists Handle Death and Funerals

Most Seventh-day Adventist funeral services are similar to those of other Protestant denominations, such as Methodists, Baptists, or Presbyterians, but you might find a few differences or unique nuances.

Adventists consider death a sad effect of sin. It is a time for mourning and recognizing the fragility of life, and it should be regarded with the appropriate amount of somber respect for those it affects.

It is always difficult to face death, whether thinking about our own or that of someone we care about.

Adventists also look forward in faith to the resurrection at the Second Coming of Christ, knowing that the resurrection and eternal life with Jesus is a blessing to look forward to. Though we recognize that death is a sad occasion, there is a measure of comfort and peace we can hold onto as believers, knowing we will be reunited at Jesus’ return.

Let’s look more closely at these beliefs, and how members of the Seventh-day Adventist Church put them into practice:

• What Adventists believe about death
• Common Adventist burial practices
• Common funeral practices
• How Adventists support the bereaved

Let’s start with looking at the scriptural basis for how we view death.

What Adventists believe about death

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You can read the official Fundamental Belief page about this topic, but here’s a summary.

Seventh-day Adventists believe that when a person dies, their body decomposes (Genesis 3:19) as they no longer have the “breath of life” (Genesis 2:7) in them. And while this breath of life returns to God, it is as if that person is in a state of unconsciousness. Like sleep, they are unaware of anything.

“For the living know that they will die; but the dead know nothing, and they have no more reward, for the memory of them is forgotten” (Ecclesiastes 9:5, NKJV).

No part of a dead person is active or aware—not the body, not any soul or spirit. They don’t exist in a spirit world that can contact living relatives.

The dead won’t know anything until Jesus Christ returns at the Second Coming and resurrects them to eternal life.

Because we believe this, we don’t believe anyone goes straight to heaven or hell right after they die. So our customs surrounding death don’t talk about or refer to death as a propelling step into heaven or hell. We refer to those who have passed on as “resting” in the grave.

Because they are at rest, Adventist funerals often include a hopeful undertone, despite grief being a natural and healthy thing to accompany a loss (Ecclesiastes 3:4). But our faith reminds us that Christ conquered death and promised He would return to take us all to heaven, defeating death forever (1 Corinthians 15:19-26).

The next thing a dead person will see is Jesus returning.

In light of these beliefs, let’s look at some Adventist burial practices.

Common Adventist burial practices

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Officially speaking, Adventists don’t hold to one specific type of burial practice. We follow what most Christians do and bury or cremate those who have just died.

Burying the dead was a Jewish tradition (1 Kings 2:10, 1 Kings 15:24, 2 Kings 20:21) which was passed down to Christianity. ¹

Cremation is also common and can be practical for many reasons. While the Bible doesn’t directly discuss it, it does give us an example of when cremation was employed. In 1 Samuel, we read of King Saul and his sons’ deaths during battle.

Most Israelites by this point were quite fed up with Saul and eager for David to become king. But the people of Jabesh Gilead, who Saul had once saved, remembered him favorably (1 Samuel 11). Out of respect, they “took the body of Saul and the bodies of his sons from the wall of Beth Shan; and they came to Jabesh and burned them there. Then they took their bones and buried them under the tamarisk tree at Jabesh, and fasted seven days” (1 Samuel 31:12-13, NKJV).

These bodies were likely mutilated and unpleasant to behold, and burning them was a sign of respect.

As far as our beliefs are concerned, the burial process is mostly due to practical and sentimental reasons. While there may be symbolic meaning within the burial practices, there is no lasting significance for the departed person and it will make no difference in how the events of the resurrection take place.

No matter how the deceased was put to rest, they will still be raised to life when Jesus returns. So Adventists leave the decision of burial or cremation up to the individuals and families.

This perspective is also behind the reasons many Adventist funerals are considered fairly simple and practical, rarely prioritizing costly or elaborate displays. Generally, we’d rather focus on supporting and comforting those who are grieving.

Common funeral practices in Adventist communities

Typically, when someone passes away, the immediate family gets to work preparing a funeral. Depending on circumstances, a funeral service could be held anywhere between a few days or a few weeks from the time of death.

It’s common for Adventists to avoid holding funerals on Sabbath, mostly because it involves a tremendous amount of work, planning, travel, and accommodations. On Sabbath, Adventists make it a priority to rest from everyday activities and focus on spending time with God.

Celebration of life services

Many Adventist communities also hold “celebration of life” or memorial services, whether in addition to a formal funeral or in place of it. These could be held up to a few months after the person’s death.

Generally, these services take the place of funerals if the body was cremated or the funeral has to be delayed past the reasonable timeframe for burial.

Or in the case of larger Adventist communities, a family might hold a small graveside service for close friends and family, and a later memorial service to include others in fondly remembering their loved one.

Viewings

The day before or day of a funeral, Adventists might hold a viewing, or a window of time (usually a few hours) when friends and family can come to the funeral home or church and speak with the relatives of the deceased. This may be an open-casket occasion, or the family may display pictures.

Funerals

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The funeral service typically takes place in a church or the funeral home. People attending might wear dark clothing and typically little or no jewelry, because of some of our beliefs about what we wear. The service often includes music, prayer, a reading of the obituary, Scripture readings, a few words from the pastor, and a benediction.

The pastor’s homily tends to focus on the hope we have in God and His plan, because all Adventists look for the day when Jesus returns at the Second Coming, and we’ll see our loved ones again in heaven. The whole service tends to have a hopeful feel, rather than one of abject sorrow, although the event is not without sadness.

The service doesn’t tend to be long—30 minutes or so, though it can depend on how many people share memories.

If the family chooses to have a graveside service, everyone will then drive to the gravesite, where the minister will often have a brief graveside service. Participants will sprinkle flowers over the casket, and it will be lowered into the ground.

In some cases, the family may provide a meal after the burial service for guests.

Even though this is a general blueprint for an Adventist funeral, there are countless variations you can expect to see. It depends on the family’s preferences and the individual’s requests, as long as it doesn’t conflict with the church’s official beliefs.

It also varies widely depending on the region of the world you live in. All cultures have their own traditions within Adventism, and it’s important to remember they may not look exactly like what we just described.

A funeral is an unhappy time, and Adventists seek to provide comfort for grieving loved ones. Let’s talk about that next.

How Adventists support the bereaved

Funerals are a difficult time for the loved ones, who bear the sadness and often the financial burden as well.

Sometimes, the deceased’s family prefers to grieve privately, and their wishes should be respected. But as much as possible, Adventists try to help their friends during this time of sadness. They may send flowers or gifts to the family’s home, to let them know they’re thinking about them and praying for them.

Other times, church members may send food to the family. A funeral involves a lot of planning, and sometimes the last thing the bereaved want to think about is deciding what they’re going to eat, or what they’ll serve for those visiting from out of town. It can be an extra burden to have to organize and prepare those meals, so the local church family tries to help as much as they can.

Visiting the grieving members can also be appreciated, if they’re up to it. Sometimes the grieving family members need someone to talk to for various reasons: getting their mind off their sadness, having a friend to talk to about preparations, or having someone to comfort them and reassure them in a time that is overwhelmed with sorrow and uncertainty.

The most important thing you can do when an Adventist you know loses a family member is do your best to understand what their individual needs might be, and try to help them in accordance with those needs. Find ways to sincerely let them know that you sympathize with them.

Death of a loved one is hard to cope with, even for Christians like Adventists who know we’ll see our Christian family members after the resurrection.

While we make sure not to dismiss this temporal sorrow we experience after a loss, we do recognize that it’s important to hold fast to that hope Jesus gives us, even in our darkest trials. He promised to never leave or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5).

And, even better, He promises that these horrible feelings people endure now will indeed end someday. When Jesus returns,

“. . .God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away” (Revelation 21:4, NKJV).

Our sadness and pain won’t exist forever! We’ll see our loved ones someday, a day when death is banished forever. This is the hope Adventists cling to.

If you’d like to read more of what the Bible says about this time of mourning,

1. Reid, George W, “Cremation,” Adventist Biblical Research.org, General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists, https://www.adventistbiblicalresearch.org/materials/cremation/.[↵]  

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